Introduction Hook – Any kind of relationships can cause you a positive or a negative effect depending on the person.Background information – Self harm is when a person cuts or burns themselves without meaning it as a suicide, anxiety is a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about an outcome or event.Overview of issue – Relationships can cause self harm, depression, and anxiety State the research question- How does relationships cause self harm, anxiety, and depression? Thesis – Relationships cause self harm, anxiety, and depression because lack of communication, trust issues, and insecurity.Body paragraph ITopic sentence  Trust issues cause jealousy or infidelity that can get in the way.Evidence 1  “Trust issues may include factors such as jealousy, possessiveness, unreasonable rigidity, emotional infidelity, physical/sexual infidelity, relational game playing, lack of reliability and dependability, lack of emotional support, lack of financial compatibility, and lack of mutually-supportive goals.”Reasoning 1 – Relationships can harm a person negatively in this way because a person doesn’t have trust with the person for their thinking or their doubts.Evidence 2 – “Without trust, a relationship misses two of the key anchors to a strong bond: safety and security.” Reasoning 2 – Relationships can affect you negative in another way because of their relationship not being safe of arguing because of the fact of someone believing they are being unfaithful.Body paragraph IITopic sentence –  Lack of communication with your loved one causes the effect of self harm, depression, and anxiety. Evidence 1 – “…best predictor of divorce is when one or both partners show contempt in the relationship.”Reasoning 1 – People expect to get all the attention from that person since there is people who really want that person to give them there all. Evidence 2 –  “Contemptuous communication works like poison – it destroys the health and wellbeing of a romantic relationship”.Reasoning 2 – Bad communication is a bad habit for people since they get mad and don’t feel like talking to their partners in what is the problem nor they try to fix it.Body paragraph IIITopic sentence  Relationships cause insecurity. Different expectations and priorities can cause partners to be insecure. Evidence 1 . “The elements that frequently draw two people toward one-another at the beginning of a relationship – physical attraction, sexual passion, common interests, personality connections, socio-economic backgrounds – often become less central as the realities and demands of day to day life sets in.”Reasoning 1- this quote supports the evidence by demonstrating how insecurity can be caused by and idea both partners have on different opinions.Evidence 2 – “Overtime, a couple’s expectations in the relationship may differentiate, as they begin to see their respective life plans as “what I want,” instead of “what we want.”Reasoning 2 – this quote supports the evidence by explaining how a person just thinks about themselves but not their partners that can end up causing negative affect toward their relationship.ConclusionRestate thesis – Relationships can cause self harm, depression, and anxiety because of the different ways people believe their relationship works.State your findings – Relationships cause depression, self harm, and anxiety because of how people see their “own wants” instead of seeing their “partner and themselves wants” in a relationship. Clincher statement – A lot of people now a days worry about their relationships. Especially the young ones. They expect everything is about love and happiness which it is, but it is also about arguments, insecurity, lack of communication, and most importantly trust issues.